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This is a question that I’ve been thinking about for most of my marriage.
I see a lot of arguments on both sides of the fence but the Bible isn’t explicitly clear on the topic, so that leaves Why do married men masturbation?
As I said, there are none that explicitly talk about masturbating, but I think we can find some applicable verses: Now, the standing that masturbating is sexual immorality is weak, so I’m not going to argue that one here.
But I will argue that a lot of spouses are masturbating out of greed.
Now, I say this in all love, having struggled with all this before.
I have a 15 year history with porn addiction, from teenage years through most of my marriage.
Otherwise, by doing so, you are cheating on your future spouse. When you are married, focus all your energy on your spouse. So, if one is married and masturbating alone, focusing his sexual energy on something other than his spouse (porn or an idealistic version of his wife, or just focusing on his own pleasure), then I’m going to call that adultery, and the Bible is very clear on that.
And at all times I was hiding something from my wife.
The damage this causes a relationship is not measurable, but it is substantial, even if you wife is not aware of it. So, I understand that some people will still think masturbation is OK, that there is no harm, that it’s not adultery, it’s not sinful and they are doing it without lust, so who is it harming?
There were times I could not perform sexually because I had already masturbated too many times that day.
There were times I avoided sexual encounters because I was worried my wife would realized I was being sexually active without her.