Tips on dating a japanese guy
Most probably this could be your last chance since you might be embarrassing him if you do not accept the date.
And the whole point of all the formality in Japanese culture is an effort to avoid embarrassment at all costs.
On the other hand if the guy calls and you sense sincerity the first time, find an excuse and ask him to call again.
Instead of wooing you with lovelorn words or expressing his romantic ardor, he may use non-verbal cues and gestures to convey his interest in you.This often leads them to be extremely polite about doing something which they may not want to in their hearts.So even if a first date has gone well and your Japanese partner has called you to go out again, the tricky part is to determine if he is sincere about it or if he is just being polite.Thus you may find your male Japanese friend behaving with some formality even in social or in casual settings.This is not so much because he is not interested in you but because it is his way of treating a lady, or any acquaintance for that matter with respect.